Hey guys, feels like I have taken another step back in my game. Still have a lot* of improvement to do, I'm not going to give up. Opening is one skill I have down, now its the next step. Especially in clubs, I can't get away with talking about anything. I have to build attraction. During day game, I can open direct and just go into qualification. But I'm not to focused on club game, but its still kinda fun. So set routine is a must in a club!
Also, I did not approach a lot of sets today during DG, my main priority was to go for quality. Which I did. Also I want to work on closing girls with their moms, sounds ridiculous, but I feel like theirs always a way!
So today I went out with Latin, and approached about 5-6 sets. Latin got a kiss close during the day, pretty narly(totally dude). But most of the time we talked about pick-up, walked around. Desensitized him to stores hes not supposed to be in by walking around Victoria's Secret, haha. But I take everyday and learn from it, and this will be no exception. Almost got a kiss close from a Japanese Girl in the club, OMGOSH love the frekin accent. Also I saw the girl I me at Spectrum at the club, and I ejected not knowing it was her! She totally was happy to see me and I didn't recognized her. Blah..
So lets go into what I remember about my approaches
Approach #1
(Japanese girl, blue contacts, super cute7.8 on my scale. Stop, open direct, moving target coming towards me)
SoL: Hey, I know this might sound random, but I thought.. you were really cute and I just had to meet you
Her: (Laughs/smiles) Thanks!
SoL: (Introduce myself to friend, Latin keeps her occupied) So what you guys up to in the mall?
Her: Just shopping
SoL: Whats the coolest thing about you?
Her: Haha, I don't know. I work here!
SoL: Whats your nationality?
Her: I'm japanese, what are you?
(Although, this is kinda job interview status, I can feel her qualifying herself to me. But still not as good as a solid routine)
SoL: blahblah, What are your favorite hobbies, what do you like to do?
Her: Dance!
SoL: REALLY? I'm going to sharks today
Her: Me too!
SoL: Here let me get your number, and I'll shoot you a text when I get there
Her: okay.. blahblahSo I pretty much ejected after number close, not right after, tried to keep it going. But I feel like I should have stay a lot longer, 2-5 minutes. Maybe try for the insta date. Regret not talking to her at the club later, I attempted too. But she realized I didn't remember her, so many damn azn girls that night! That was pretty much the only number close of the night. I texted her "I'm pregnant" and she responded with "Who is this" about 2 hrs later. Haha
Approach #2
(Girl sitting down on table, main reason for approaching was to watch Latin approach his set. So go in the set and tell her exactly what I'm doing, she laughs and says good luck with my friend.Not much to work on, just make sure I treat everyone the same regardless of who they are. No one gets special treatment and everyone gets respect. As I was growing up I would always treat girls differently and its something I need to work on to this day. And I've only made minors gains in the last 2-3 weeks by being genuine.
Approach #3-5
I end up approaching about 2-3 girls that are older than me. I make their days, Latin tells me to not practice ejecting and stay in the set even if they are old. I get insecure about age and usually ask them how old they are if I feel like they are older. (I guess I just don't want to waste my time??) Thats a crap excuse, I need to stay in set and get more experience.>>>>Move to South Coast, Target Rich environment.................. for hired guns
Most of the time, we were walking around. Run into bf objections, too old, etc. But I try to keep a positive mindset and keep moving, opening.
Approach #6
(Should have gave this set to Latin, she was 28! I just don't dig the older chicks, :/, maybe I will start going for them. But I feel like they won't like younger guys, and I'm just not really interested. I know some guys are, thats cool! But not me. This girl is walking superrrrrr fast, I chase after her for like 3 minutes. Feelss so stalkerish. But I do opener her)
SoL: Hey, I know this is random, but I noticed you and I had to at least come over here and say that you are really beautiful... My name is SoL
Her:(Smiles) My name is_____
SoL: So, how old are you?
Her: 28
SoL: You look so much younger!
Her: Yeah you look kinda young
SoL: Where you headed?
Her: Victoria Secret
SoL: I thought that was on the other side
Her: Ya theres on her too
SoL:(She didn't even walk away, I just started walking away. BAD HABIT, STAY IN SET. If I train myself to talk away, then when I meet that bombshell I'm going to do the same thingSo, I practiced talking to a very attractive 28 year old and my next set was the same thing. Except asian and 27. She was really receptive and Latin came in and met them. Two set, both older than me.
So in the mist of all this, there were probably some approaches I left out. Some banter with hired guns, opening people with the Startrek gangsign. Loved the movie. (Warning...... Don't do stuff at top of parking structures =P)
THINGS TO WORK ON
1.) STAY IN SET, just keep talking. Have things ready, that I want to talk about
2.) Going to were the targets are at! I spent most of my time at SC plaza, walking... Go a the best times, and where the ladies are at
3.) Develop an interesting life outside of pick-up! I need to find a job as a server, thats my goal right now. Work as little as possible and get the highest return for that time that I do work. Make new friends, find new hobbies! Once I start work, most of my time will be divided amongst school, family, friends, work, and pick-up. I think its good to have a balance
4.) Find my purpose in life, that is the underlying reason that will make my life interesting. Give me direction
5.) Smile genuinely, focus on living in the moment.Quit, don't quit? Noodles, don't noodles? You are too concerned about what was and what will be. There is a saying: yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That is why it is called the "present."
Kung fu panda
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Sharkclub-
My first time at the club, I was already feeling exhausted from the previous day game sesh, but I go anyways. I opened about 10-12 direct sets, most of them ejecting after opening. I need*** to fix that. I tried to do DG and a night club, my energy levels were not there. Monotone throughout the night. Danced with some lesbians,(don't really dance) but there were a shitzloads of peeps that night. Anyone from CC there? Lol, I think I recruited one, wrote the website on his hand. Almost got a kiss close from japanese accent girl. Talked to a dj, name was M, direct talking about issues at hand. He said he grew up with sisters, like 5-6, and they taught him well. He said you have to "Not give a shit" and just move on to the next one. Girls love that. He was there supporting his gogo dancer gf. I didn't start getting momentum until the end of the night where I pointed to a friend of mine and said "Watch this" and I opened back to back sets, guys and girls. Like 10-15 in a row, and he was watching and laughing behind me. I had a trippy experience on the dance floor, where they let the mist(w.e you want to call it) and you can't see in front of you, you become literally blind. Overall I don't regret going, and I practiced opening sets after it was over! I have much to improve on.
So my first set was in line, to get into the club, need to start opening as soon as you get there to build up that momentum. And my first approach ended up being lesbians, who were really fun. We took pictures together and later met up inside and treated them like my best friends. Even got massages later, that asian one was hurting me >.<
Also danced with them, a lot of fun. Attempted to go for a two way kiss close, but didn't work out
I don't remember all my approaches, but most were direct compliments. I tried to be a sincere, direct, and genuine as possible. The responses varied. About 50% smiles, thank you! Other half was, more of "gree thanks" usually from girls who weren't that cute. I tried only going for the cute ones. But I need to stay in set and move from one step to the next. Attraction, Opener>Banter>Isolate(erh, not really in order, don't know too much about it) I'm at that stage where I can open, but I felt like I didn't want to open. At one point I said "Whats the point?" But I was like fuk that, keep opening.
So first 3 hrs, (On Valerian the whole time, its a natural drug that I'm never going to take again, I didn't have my Green Tea
, RiteAid's wasn't accepting my card) I was going in and out of sets, when I should have been opening everyone and HAVING A GOOD TIME.
Sorry guys, last night was like a strobe light, don't remember much. I tried to talk to everyone, dance floor was crazy packed. I remember talking to a super HB9.5, her sister was a gogo dancer, we banter back and forth. I eject after a little bit, but about 1hr later she sees me and tugs on my shirt, duno if that means anything.
Haha, but I'm bummed out about last night, Because my focus is on DG and I'm getting results. I just need to break down everything I need to improve on.
My text game being one of them
THINGS TO IMPROVE IN CLUB
1.) No more Valerian(I was super relaxed, but then I felt I had no energy to approach. Didn't have my caffeine from my Green Tea
2.) MORE ENERGY, Raise my energy levels
3.) HAVE SOME SET ROUTINES, tease, banter, being interesting Sorry for the undetailed FR's in the past, been doing other things, thought I post one decent on today, see you guys at the Seminar EL TOPO!
