I didn't really feel like going out, but when Status66 brought it up, I figured better to go than to do nothing. We headed to Brea Mall for a short session. Completely dead. Almost nobody around. Everyone watching the Laker game?

With slim pickings around, I ended up doing one approach, a cute girl that had just ordered lunch and was waiting for it. I almost bailed out on the set because she was taller than me but with Status pushing I knew I had to do it. We walked by and I was supposed to open but as we did she moved her back toward us, I didn't want to approach directly from behind so I kept walking a bit longer, than turned back around and went for it. While I was on the way we made eye contact, but I think I broke it first. (Note to self: Maintain eye contact, especially if I'm going to approach, no point in looking away like I wasn't interested when I'm about to say I am)

Direct opener
Dyno: "Hey, I know this is random but I noticed you and I think you are cute so I at least wanted to come over and introduce myself."
She laughs, says thank you.
"Hi, my name is Dyno" Shake hands.
Her: "Hi, my name is ____."
Dyno: "Oh, ____ that's a nice name. You just bought lunch huh?"
Her: "Yeah, I'm just getting a salad here on my lunch break."
Dyno:" "Cool, so you work here. At what store?"
She says blah blah blah store, I dont' even know what store it is so she explains it.
Her: "Well, seems like you'd be an expert here then. I used to eat at the Arby's here but it's closed now, what would you suggest."
She suggests a couple places in the food court.
Dyno: "That's a really cool necklace, where'd you get it"
She explains where she got it, but I don't remember because I was trying to think of what to say next.
Dyno: "Oh so you know what those symbols on it mean?"
Her: "Oh they're for like protection or something."
Dyno: "Ohh, like protection against guys?"
She laughs.
Dyno: "That's a very nice natural hair color."
Her reddish hair is obviously not natural.
She laughs and says yeah, she bought it.
Fluff talk about school and majors at which point her order is basically done. She picks it up, and I know I need to close now, rather than follow.
Dyno: "Well, I'll let you go eat your lunch. You're a pretty cool person though, so let's get together for coffee."
Her: "Yeah, let's do that, do you have a phone... or?"
I pull out my phone she gives me her number I tell her I'll call her later and we say bye.

Notes:
I was overall less nervous, but I need to make a stack cause I am running out of things to say.
Even though I noticed I was falling into an interview style session, I couldn't think of anything else so I plowed through. Need to make STATEMENTS, not ask QUESTIONS.
Seed better, although this time I can text or call about her food recommendation so I do have something to start with.
Better eye contact. I'm used to making eye contact when I sit across from someone. Standing though I forget. Also need to watch my body language, my hands were fidgeting a bit, should probably give that body rock a try.

Good things:
My delivery is getting better.
I wasn't as ambiguous with "we should hang out sometime." I stated a specific activity.
I remembered her name. (I actually made sure I did this time)
I didn't eject, I plowed through and in the end # closed.

How reliable the # is, I guess we'll see when I text later.

General Key Points:
Always approach in day game. Never know if she is the only girl you'll see the whole time you are out at a session.

NEVER be afraid to approach a taller girl. As Status66 pointed out, lots of people get intimidated by their height, therefore they get approached less overall and are easier to open.

AHHH, I see dyno becoming a day game xpert,

I'm like trying to work on my essay right now, gah I wanted to DG today.

Great FR man, love how you plowed through, better to fluff talk than to eject too soon. Just remember to be "too comfortable", keep talking. Try the (A-Z) game, let me excerpt my notes on "How not to run out of things to say"

Running out of things to say, is one of the worst things to do.

A girl doesn't like social awkwardness!!!

THINGS TO SAY OR DO WHEN THINGS STALL

a lot of different things to say, insure something lands

BRIEF OUTLINE OF FEW THINGS YOU WANT TO TALK ABOUT

#1Preparation is what you need to do.

-Things about yourself you think girls might be looking at you

-What you look for in a girl

IGNORE ANYTHING THAT DOESN'T HELP YOU

Association Exercise
(Look around environment and talk about it for 30 secs, NOT really many interesting thing to talk about, A-Z List, interesting words, APPLE, ZEBRA,
EXM, D- DOG I miss my dog because my... A-Z routines!)

Asking a question and demonstrate higher value (on the fly demonstrate of HV)
How do you guys all know each other?
I use to work here and met my fiance which turned out to be a stripper.
Don't have to be particularly interesting question.
SITUATIONALLY RELEVENT, on the fly spontanious stories

Role play,
What do you guys do, o were nurses
Omgosh, you know what is crazy, in hs I would watch porn and see, naughty nurses.

"You know what I'm going to do with you guys... Great way to keep conversation going"

HERE AND NOW stay away, not a good way to create emotion.

Pacing situation(Great way to keep conversation going)
Exp. Omgosh I just ran out of things to say, your turn to be interesting.
Turn it around- Okay, I'm a stand up comedian I can do this all day. Lets talk about socks, haha nvm that didn't work rewind

You address that situation is awkward and you address it.

Observations are great, don't be worry if they hit, just keep talking!
Demonstrate personality
Funny- funny value
Fun- alot better
Other people- You know, I'm such a people watcher, I think 99% of women are people watchers. "Look at that guy, "

TURNING QUESTIONS TO STATEMENT, Death unless you follow up with a story.
BAD> "You guys go out a lot" "wered you guys go before here" "What kind of drink is that" >> these questions are like withdrawing money from bank.

BUT>> Take any question and turn it into a statement. "you know what you guys look like _____" COMMONALITIES rather then "Where you guys from"

Phrasal transitions: That reminds me... "Thats just like when" move conversation where you want to go

BUILD A BASIC CONVERSATION OUTLINE FRAMEWORK

What type of guy you are
What type of things you are going to talk about

what your advantages you have and disadvantages
Who you are and

RECAP
Association > AZ

Ask questions DEMONSTRATE HIGHER VALUE

ROLE PLAY> "you know what I'm going to do with you guys"

**PACE SITUATION>> Let them know its getting awkward.

TURN QUESTIONS INTO STATEMENTS

MEHOW

10 second sexual attraction




Thats a huge step in progress, just keep going out man!

I like how objective you are, knowing what you need to improve and then applying it to your game takes you a looong ways.

Make sure you seed with a specific time and date,

Compliment, then seed

"Hey its not like everyday where I meet someone cool like you, I'm going to blah blah with friends(build it up) (Specific time) you should come along.." Its in the DG guide, so just check it out again.

KEEP IT UP!

I better see another FR tomorrow, or I'm going to spam text on your ass.

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If you think you know something, it doesn't mean you understand it.

Genuine understanding comes from physical application.

solid man! im glad you went direct and got her attention. Takes a lot of balls dude! You need to work on transitioning though and using what she says as material.

Her: "Yeah, I'm just getting a salad here on my lunch break."

You should say something like: :I bet you I can guess what kinda work you do, Im sort of a psychic you look like you work at ikea! *tease*"

not gonna go through the whole interaction but ya you basically got it. Make more statements, cold reads etc.

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all game is inner game

Looks pretty good man, I see direct working alot better than indirect in daygame. Gonna have to try that next time I'm out.

I just hit up the mall but I wasn't feeling it and it was completely dead so I left pretty much right away, I'm gonna give it a try tomorrow though since Fridays are usually better.

Rush

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I am in this to LEARN. I am in this to BECOME a BETTER PERSON. I am in this to get that PUSSY.

“I miss 100% of the shots I don’t take.” It’s much better to
take a shot and get rejected than to let an opportunity pass by.

There is no such thing as REJECTION. Only PROGRESS and LEARNING.

BLOWOUTS mean NOTHING.

Always be PUSHING your COMFORT ZONE.