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 Post Posted: Tue May 24, 2011 6:32 am 
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Any time you do something you can create positive or negative reference experiences. If you approach 100 women and 100 women tell you to fuck off, your subconscious might start to feel women don't like you. Those would be negative reference experiences, and when they outweigh the positive ones, the process isn't constructive.

To avoid that, you need to be able to automatically reframe things into the positive without letting shit get you down. Taking time off lets you recharge and regroup so you can come back with a fresh attitude, to back up and see the forest again (in this case, that it was your approach blowing you out, not the fact women dislike you, leading you to rethink your approach).

In my case once I stopped doing cold approach and focused on online and meetups, I felt much better because my time wasn't going to waste, I was learning new skills and the outcomes were improving. My time off initially allowed me to realize I needed new avenues besides cold approach.

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Some aspects of cold approach are necessary I believe if you see a girl you have to talk to. At the moment I could careless, although I do want explore different areas of meeting women... it could boil down to why I dont cold approach in the club much anymore.

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