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 Post Posted: Sat Jun 25, 2011 9:02 pm 
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Life has come to hit me clean upside the head lately and it has nothing to do with game, it just partly relates to it.

Since I joined the community back in 07' and actively sarging since '08. I have become very self aware of how my life reflects to the game.

I play rec league bball once a week, and 2 weeks ago there was a game I started out 4/4 from the 3 point land, made a few jump shots and got my team up to a good lead in the game. After this spurt though, I let the other team shut me down, they started playing better D and therefore I wasnt able to score at my leisure. I finished the game very sloppy and had a lot of turnovers which cost my team the game in the long run.

As I was driving home though, I realized something that this game just symbolized that I'm a great started but a bad closer. Like most of my FRs I start good with attraction but I can never finish. And I wonder what is the cause of that, and the only thing I can come up with is that I havent practiced enough on seduction thus I dont know how to calibrate situations that can be good for me unless is blatantly obvious she wants sex. Simply meaning, my calibration for adjusting to situations in the game has to improve.

2. Finances

Recently, My bosses at work have come up to me and expressed some concerns that my performance has been lacking. Of course, I have been thinking I'm doing a good job and so does the other employees I work with. They seen me work hard and even agree w/ me on why they give me such an hard time. My drive for this job had been gradually decreasing since they have been doing this, so I just became complacent with coming to work and just working and not doing much of anything else... I figured as long as I dont get in trouble I'm fine.

WRONG!!!

I come to work and do what they ask me to do, but in the process I lost my drive to make more money and be promoted inside the store where I ultimately need to be. How this reflects to game... I had became complacent with my skill, became a guy that was just chronically going out, just to go but with no real goal in mind. Hoping I learn the game good enough to a point where, I could just go out and make it happen at my leisure instead of going out there and solidifying myself as a great PUA. I lost the drive, so theyre for without brushing up on the skill I lost crucial skills like Rapport building and attraction.

Not that I realize that I have to get back on the road to becoming the man I wanted to be. And doing this game, how you guys are trying to teach me to do. I think I know everything and this hasnt got me anywhere fast...

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 Post Posted: Mon Jun 27, 2011 12:29 am 
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JuicePUA wrote:
Life has come to hit me clean upside the head lately and it has nothing to do with game, it just partly relates to it.

Since I joined the community back in 07' and actively sarging since '08. I have become very self aware of how my life reflects to the game.

I play rec league bball once a week, and 2 weeks ago there was a game I started out 4/4 from the 3 point land, made a few jump shots and got my team up to a good lead in the game. After this spurt though, I let the other team shut me down, they started playing better D and therefore I wasnt able to score at my leisure. I finished the game very sloppy and had a lot of turnovers which cost my team the game in the long run.

As I was driving home though, I realized something that this game just symbolized that I'm a great started but a bad closer. Like most of my FRs I start good with attraction but I can never finish. And I wonder what is the cause of that, and the only thing I can come up with is that I havent practiced enough on seduction thus I dont know how to calibrate situations that can be good for me unless is blatantly obvious she wants sex. Simply meaning, my calibration for adjusting to situations in the game has to improve.

2. Finances

Recently, My bosses at work have come up to me and expressed some concerns that my performance has been lacking. Of course, I have been thinking I'm doing a good job and so does the other employees I work with. They seen me work hard and even agree w/ me on why they give me such an hard time. My drive for this job had been gradually decreasing since they have been doing this, so I just became complacent with coming to work and just working and not doing much of anything else... I figured as long as I dont get in trouble I'm fine.

WRONG!!!

I come to work and do what they ask me to do, but in the process I lost my drive to make more money and be promoted inside the store where I ultimately need to be. How this reflects to game... I had became complacent with my skill, became a guy that was just chronically going out, just to go but with no real goal in mind. Hoping I learn the game good enough to a point where, I could just go out and make it happen at my leisure instead of going out there and solidifying myself as a great PUA. I lost the drive, so theyre for without brushing up on the skill I lost crucial skills like Rapport building and attraction.

Not that I realize that I have to get back on the road to becoming the man I wanted to be. And doing this game, how you guys are trying to teach me to do. I think I know everything and this hasnt got me anywhere fast...


A little focus/goals goes a long way...

Perhaps try recording your sets and you can see your results. I'm still trying to battle AA especially when I see that 10.

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 Post Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2011 7:01 pm 
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Because you are complacent with your goals. If you're happy to open and build attraction, that's all you're ever going to get. If your goal is to make out with a girl but nothing else, that's all you'll do. If your goal is to have a SNL but never a GF, then....you know the drill.

The trick is to put yourself in uncomfortable situations and STICK to them.

It's like with me and guitar playing. I'll practice scales to a metronome and that's boring as shit. But it's the only way to get faster and cleaner with my playing. If I only set my goals low, to a slow tempo (80 bpm), that's all I'll ever be able to play. But if I start ramping up the tempo (180 bpm), which is uncomfortable and frustrating as all hell, I'll eventually get to a place where I'm better. Funny thing happens too, if I ease off a little to 120, all of a sudden I'm shredding at that.

So take a look at your goals, whatever they are ask yourself how much more could I do?

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